Trying to be open minded is just leading to a draft in my noggin!

My husband has had PD for more than 12 years. Try as I may, I have a constant struggle with resentment. Not everything is related to his PD, certainly, lots may be due to stereotypical behavior on both our parts. He cannot do everything he used to, neither can I. The thing that gets me is his lack of empathy. I am constantly doing self talk to get through but sometimes I am not falling for the stuff I am spouting!